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CoHo_to_B-Lo
Buffalo Sabres
Location: East Amherst, NY
Joined: 02.29.2012

Aug 7 @ 3:45 PM ET
I'm tired of hearing that, age or no age.
- SABRES 89



At the same time, you go back to a millionaire athletes house at 4am wasted, what do you think you are going there for? Monopoly and tea?
hubie
Buffalo Sabres
Location: Matt Ellis is my patronus, NY
Joined: 06.28.2011

Aug 7 @ 3:45 PM ET
I'm tired of hearing that, age or no age.
- SABRES 89


If this was Pat Kane random college student you wouldn't hear a word about it.
Der Kaiser
Buffalo Sabres
Location: I Know Nothink ... NOTHINK!
Joined: 07.27.2007

Aug 7 @ 3:50 PM ET
At the same time, you go back to a millionaire athletes house at 4am wasted, what do you think you are going there for? Monopoly and tea?
- CoHo_to_B-Lo

This is a dumbass statement

It doesn't matter where it happens, when a woman says no the show is over.
HonkFortheGoose
Buffalo Sabres
Location: "___________ stinks."-Sabres89, NY
Joined: 07.26.2008

Aug 7 @ 3:51 PM ET
Hes a punk kid with money, we weren't all angels at 26

Im not saying I condone what he dose but if I was a Millionaire before I was 20 id have been a punk as well

I know Kane and I aren't the first people in history to bring a drunk girl home

- hubie


And these are the exact reasons why I've never been a big drinker. I'll get a buzz, but I don't allow myself to get completely drunk. There's too much of a chance that something bad happens when you don't have control of yourself. Whether it be to you or someone you're with. It's just not smart.

If I have to actively think about how I'm walking, then making decisions about things such as sleeping with someone or getting into a car and driving, then I shouldn't be making those kinds of decisions. The best answer at that point is "NO."

I feel like as a woman, I need to protect myself from being put in that kind of situation.

Now, we don't know if that's indeed what happened, and if it did, her being intoxicated doesn't make it right. But I think there's lot less of a chance of something bad happening if she wasn't.
CoHo_to_B-Lo
Buffalo Sabres
Location: East Amherst, NY
Joined: 02.29.2012

Aug 7 @ 3:52 PM ET
This is a dumbass statement

It doesn't matter where it happens, when a woman says no the show is over.

- Der Kaiser



I didnt know you were there, i was unaware she said no. To me it sounds like "female" was drunk hooked up with "male" and then regretted the situation. Not saying this happened or didnt but it could really go either way.
hubie
Buffalo Sabres
Location: Matt Ellis is my patronus, NY
Joined: 06.28.2011

Aug 7 @ 3:57 PM ET
And these are the exact reasons why I've never been a big drinker. I'll get a buzz, but I don't allow myself to get completely drunk. There's too much of a chance that something bad happens when you don't have control of yourself. Whether it be to you or someone you're with. It's just not smart.

If I have to actively think about how I'm walking, then making decisions about things such as sleeping with someone or getting into a car and driving, then I shouldn't be making those kinds of decisions. The best answer at that point is "NO."

I feel like as a woman, I need to protect myself from being put in that kind of situation.

Now, we don't know if that's indeed what happened, and if it did, her being intoxicated doesn't make it right. But I think there's lot less of a chance of something bad happening if she wasn't.

- HonkFortheGoose


Well put, and agree with you
I feel either way guy or girl you need to be aware and not put yourself in that position.

I know when I was younger in college I was out drinking and doing stupid stuff. Was I getting raped no, im surprised I was never jumped robbed beat up etc. Ive also put myself in what could have been situations bringing a girl home fro the bag luckily for me I never got in trouble.

The amount of people I had in front of me on judicial board saying we both were drinking is mind blowing and it dosent make it ok
Der Kaiser
Buffalo Sabres
Location: I Know Nothink ... NOTHINK!
Joined: 07.27.2007

Aug 7 @ 4:00 PM ET
I didnt know you were there, i was unaware she said no. To me it sounds like "female" was drunk hooked up with "male" and then regretted the situation. Not saying this happened or didnt but it could really go either way.
- CoHo_to_B-Lo[

That's why it's a dumbass statement.

It presumes any woman would only go to a guys house late at night with the intention of having sex with him, which is a dumbass presumption; and it presumes this particular woman said yes then regretted it, which is also a dumbass presumption.

You should give women a little more credit in their capacity to actually think, and to not be evil spiteful female doges.
CoHo_to_B-Lo
Buffalo Sabres
Location: East Amherst, NY
Joined: 02.29.2012

Aug 7 @ 4:04 PM ET
[quote=CoHo_to_B-Lo]I didnt know you were there, i was unaware she said no. To me it sounds like "female" was drunk hooked up with "male" and then regretted the situation. Not saying this happened or didnt but it could really go either way.
- Der Kaiser[

That's why it's a dumbass statement.

It presumes any woman would only go to a guys house late at night with the intention of having sex with him, which is a dumbass presumption; and it presumes this particular woman said yes then regretted it, which is also a dumbass presumption.

You should give women a little more credit in their capacity to actually think, and
to not be evil spiteful female doges.



You are completely taking what i am saying wrong, so i will end this conversation. Dont want to battle with a 80yr old keyboard warrior.
hubie
Buffalo Sabres
Location: Matt Ellis is my patronus, NY
Joined: 06.28.2011

Aug 7 @ 4:09 PM ET
You are completely taking what i am saying wrong, so i will end this conversation. Dont want to battle with a 80yr old keyboard warrior.
- CoHo_to_B-Lo

so youre trying to end a argument by starting up another one?
CoHo_to_B-Lo
Buffalo Sabres
Location: East Amherst, NY
Joined: 02.29.2012

Aug 7 @ 4:12 PM ET
so youre trying to end a argument by starting up another one?
- hubie


I cant take one shot, after the word dumbass was posted countless times?
HonkFortheGoose
Buffalo Sabres
Location: "___________ stinks."-Sabres89, NY
Joined: 07.26.2008

Aug 7 @ 4:13 PM ET
Well put, and agree with you
I feel either way guy or girl you need to be aware and not put yourself in that position.

I know when I was younger in college I was out drinking and doing stupid stuff. Was I getting raped no, im surprised I was never jumped robbed beat up etc. Ive also put myself in what could have been situations bringing a girl home fro the bag luckily for me I never got in trouble.

The amount of people I had in front of me on judicial board saying we both were drinking is mind blowing and it dosent make it ok

- hubie


Exactly. These situations aren't generally as black and white as "no means no." And my guess would be the Kane one falls into that grey area as well.

HonkFortheGoose
Buffalo Sabres
Location: "___________ stinks."-Sabres89, NY
Joined: 07.26.2008

Aug 7 @ 4:13 PM ET
I cant take one shot, after the word dumbass was posted countless times?
- CoHo_to_B-Lo


Sometimes the high road is the better way to go.
seedy
Buffalo Sabres
Location: you don't need an ignore button to ignore someone., CA
Joined: 02.22.2007

Aug 7 @ 4:13 PM ET
police department controls that


if the woman was under age, there is no payoff because she can't drop that charge

- homiedclown


I wonder if he can pass off any of that blame to the bar if he indeed met her in a bar. I mean, how many times have you asked a woman for ID before you took her home?

Money also always helps. The Walmart Heiress has had multiple DUI's and killed a person and has never seen any jail time.

Some rich kid from Wisconsin has the same story. Killed a few germans in Florida. Paid off the family and florida sent him back to Wisconsin to "think about what he did..."

Why kill a lion when you can pay to kill "the most dangerous game" right here in the good old USA?
bjm1717
New York Islanders
Location: Sam Reinhart is the next Wayne Gretzky!
Joined: 08.18.2011

Aug 7 @ 4:15 PM ET
You are completely taking what i am saying wrong, so i will end this conversation. Dont want to battle with a 80yr old keyboard warrior.
- CoHo_to_B-Lo


you guys are gonna get your pee pees slapped by Ek.
CoHo_to_B-Lo
Buffalo Sabres
Location: East Amherst, NY
Joined: 02.29.2012

Aug 7 @ 4:15 PM ET
Sometimes the high road is the better way to go.
- HonkFortheGoose


You are correct. Frustation started to build after what i was saying was being misread countless times by the same person.

To that i agree with your earlier post 100% which is what i was getting at.
CoHo_to_B-Lo
Buffalo Sabres
Location: East Amherst, NY
Joined: 02.29.2012

Aug 7 @ 4:16 PM ET
I wonder if he can pass off any of that blame to the bar if he indeed met her in a bar. I mean, how many times have you asked a woman for ID before you took her home?

Money also always helps. The Walmart Heiress has had multiple DUI's and killed a person and has never seen any jail time.

Some rich kid from Wisconsin has the same story. Killed a few germans in Florida. Paid off the family and florida sent him back to Wisconsin to "think about what he did..."

Why kill a lion when you can pay to kill "the most dangerous game" right here in the good old USA?

- seedy



The ID route wont work. It happens alot, innocent guys try to use the, they had an ID, they were in a bar, they have tattoos, they were smoking. All signs that they were over 18. But none of that holds up.
IonSabres
Buffalo Sabres
Location: I said that months ago, keep up!, FL
Joined: 03.10.2013

Aug 7 @ 4:16 PM ET
[quote=CoHo_to_B-Lo]I didnt know you were there, i was unaware she said no. To me it sounds like "female" was drunk hooked up with "male" and then regretted the situation. Not saying this happened or didnt but it could really go either way.
- Der Kaiser[

That's why it's a dumbass statement.

It presumes any woman would only go to a guys house late at night with the intention of having sex with him, which is a dumbass presumption; and it presumes this particular woman said yes then regretted it, which is also a dumbass presumption.

You should give women a little more credit in their capacity to actually think, and to not be evil spiteful female doges.


That said,
She was going there in the early am, miles and miles away from the strip, alone with a guy to ...???
CoHo_to_B-Lo
Buffalo Sabres
Location: East Amherst, NY
Joined: 02.29.2012

Aug 7 @ 4:17 PM ET
you guys are gonna get your pee pees slapped by Ek.
- bjm1717



Promise?
CoHo_to_B-Lo
Buffalo Sabres
Location: East Amherst, NY
Joined: 02.29.2012

Aug 7 @ 4:18 PM ET
That said,
She was going there in the early am, miles and miles away from the strip, alone with a guy to ...???

- IonSabres



Thank you for understanding what i was trying to point out, and they were in Eden not the chip strip.
hubie
Buffalo Sabres
Location: Matt Ellis is my patronus, NY
Joined: 06.28.2011

Aug 7 @ 4:19 PM ET
The ID route wont work. It happens alot, innocent guys try to use the, they had an ID, they were in a bar, they have tattoos, they were smoking. All signs that they were over 18. But none of that holds up.
- CoHo_to_B-Lo


Sorry who here didn't have a fake ID when they were kids

Hell I was drinking at Sawyer Creek well before I had one aswell
hubie
Buffalo Sabres
Location: Matt Ellis is my patronus, NY
Joined: 06.28.2011

Aug 7 @ 4:21 PM ET
Thank you for understanding what i was trying to point out, and they were in Eden not the chip strip.
- CoHo_to_B-Lo


Which is odd to me cause that would make it sound like a hole in the wall where everyone would know everyone
CoHo_to_B-Lo
Buffalo Sabres
Location: East Amherst, NY
Joined: 02.29.2012

Aug 7 @ 4:22 PM ET
Sorry who here didn't have a fake ID when they were kids

Hell I was drinking at Sawyer Creek well before I had one aswell

- hubie



Yea everyone does, which is where the system is a little flawed, if im at bar and having drinks with someone i shouldnt have to think twice if there are over 18!
Sabresfan88
Buffalo Sabres
Location: Nashville, TN
Joined: 08.01.2011

Aug 7 @ 4:22 PM ET
I ran the fraternal disciplinary committee in college and the one thing I always said is you are responsible if you put yourself in that position. Taking a girl home drunk is not a good position to be in. I don't care if both of you have been drinking you should no better.
If you cant take her home sober don't take home drunk

- hubie

Yeah,
Specially, when the girl sobers up, and sees a HUGE $$$ sign laying naked next to her in the bed!!!
seedy
Buffalo Sabres
Location: you don't need an ignore button to ignore someone., CA
Joined: 02.22.2007

Aug 7 @ 4:22 PM ET
Hes a punk kid with money, we weren't all angels at 26

Im not saying I condone what he dose but if I was a Millionaire before I was 20 id have been a punk as well

I know Kane and I aren't the first people in history to bring a drunk girl home

- hubie


When you have that much money, someone needs to take you aside (agent, parent) and tell you that you can have and do pretty much what ever you want, just to be smart about it. I doubt LaFontaine was an angel at 26, but its about how you present yourself to the public when you're a high priced, one of the best athletes in your league player.
CoHo_to_B-Lo
Buffalo Sabres
Location: East Amherst, NY
Joined: 02.29.2012

Aug 7 @ 4:23 PM ET
Which is odd to me cause that would make it sound like a hole in the wall where everyone would know everyone
- hubie



I thought the same thing, how many people are in Eden? 500? lol so if 10% of the town went to the same bar that would be 5 people in there? 3 employees, pat kane and the female. lol
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